honestly it depends what you’re after, if you want to know if it’s an option then you may as well go for it so you don’t spend your time wondering but just do it in a relaxed kinda way cause boys get spooked super quick. it’s like trying not to make a toddler cry whilst wearing a chuckie mask sometimes.
but if you’re keen to just hang out with him, get to know him and make a judgement on how that goes then just make him want to talk to you. chat to his mates (not flirty, just get to know them), hit up some of the same parties or gigs and don’t crowd him but just be yourself, tell jokes and have fun then i kid you not within a few casual encounters it’s like a moth to a flame.
only advise is- don’t smother him, don’t be a bitch and don’t put out too early.
“boys are all about sticking it in, not about sticking around”- one of my angry drunken quotes.
good luck !